Today i was reminded during marriage preparation, Pastor did tell us about romance love that will fade. So when it fade, what will happen? For most married couple, romance love fade maybe 1 yr later because u see each other everyday. Some maybe wont even feel the romance love fade because they may have ease through the transition.
Romance Love fades and it requires effort to be put in to build it up again. Love is not just about feeling. It entails responsibilities, trust, patience etc.. i was reminded of 1 Cor 13. Many couples will feel when romance love fades if they truely think about it, next is what? Find a new gf?
Guess for me when it fades, it becomes a responsibility for me to ensure my husband's needs are met. In sickness, in health... Or maybe I always took it upon myself it is my responsibility to ensure his basic needs are met, fed well, zzz well, doing little things for him or even serving him.
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